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PerfMarry — Proposals, priest ceremony, homes & tp [1.21.x + Folia support]
Java mod listed for Minecraft 1.21. Downloads from the MC Java Mods app on Android.
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Marriage plugin for Paper 1.21.x: propose, accept/deny, optional Vault costs, shared home, partner tp / tp-here with warmups, gift, kiss / hug cosmetics, configurable wedding ring, priest workflows ( /marry priest, /marry ceremony), optional altar location & ceremony countdown. Folia-supported. Data in SQLite or MySQL (Hikari).
Support
Discord — bugs & support
Features
- Folia support — folia-supported: true; schedulers used for delays / ceremony ticks.
- Marriage flow — /marry (player) proposal, expiry, cooldowns; accept / deny; optional priest-only mode.
- Economy — Optional Vault marriage & divorce fees; priest reward on marry.
- Divorce — Modes both, either, initiator, target; post-divorce cooldown; optional broadcast.
- Homes — sethome / home with configurable max-homes (per config).
- Teleport — tp to online partner (cooldown + optional countdown); tphere with optional partner accept.
- Items & social — ring re-issue; gift main-hand item to partner (cooldown, forbidden list); kiss / hug radius, particles, sounds.
- Priest — priest (p1) (p2) dual proposal; ceremony finalizes engaged pairs in range; optional fixed world/location.
- Messages — MiniMessage in messages.yml.
- PlaceholderAPI — Expansion perfmarry (see below).
Placeholders ( PlaceholderAPI, perfmarry)
- %perfmarry_partner% / %perfmarry_partner_name% — partner name or empty
- %perfmarry_married% — true / false
- %perfmarry_days% — full days since wedding
- %perfmarry_date% — wedding date (yyyy-MM-dd)
Commands
- /marry — Status / help-style info (perfmarry.use)
- /marry (player) — Send proposal (perfmarry.use)
- /marry accept — Accept marriage, tp-here invite, or priest proposal step (perfmarry.use)
- /marry deny — Deny proposal / priest proposal (perfmarry.use)
- /marry divorce — Divorce flow (perfmarry.use)
- /marry home — Teleport to marriage home (perfmarry.use)
- /marry sethome — Set marriage home (perfmarry.use)
- /marry tp — Teleport to partner (perfmarry.use)
- /marry tphere — Request partner to you (perfmarry.use)
- /marry ring — Get wedding ring item (perfmarry.use)
- /marry gift — Gift held item (perfmarry.use)
- /marry kiss — Cosmetic (perfmarry.use)
- /marry hug — Cosmetic (perfmarry.use)
- /marry info — Same as bare /marry (perfmarry.use)
- /marry priest (player1) (player2) — Start priest pairing (perfmarry.priest)
- /marry ceremony — Run ceremony for nearby engaged pair (perfmarry.priest)
- /perfmarry reload — Reload (perfmarry.admin)
- /perfmarry help — Admin usage (perfmarry.admin)
- /perfmarry stats (player) — Marriage lookup (perfmarry.admin)
Database
- SQLite — default
- MySQL — optional
Quick facts
- Edition: Minecraft Java
- File type: .jar
- Minecraft version listed: 1.21
- How to install: Install the matching mod loader (Forge, Fabric or NeoForge) for your Minecraft version. → Download the .jar. → Put it in the .minecraft/mods folder and launch that loader profile.
- Where to get it: Opens on Spigot — not every file is mirrored on our own servers.
Install steps are the general flow for this file type — How to install Minecraft Java mods & modpacks walks through it step by step.
PerfMarry — Proposals, priest ceremony, homes & tp [1.21.x + Folia support] is a free Minecraft Java mod. Compatible with Minecraft 1.21. Downloaded 65 times (via Spigot). Download it and open it directly in the game.